Friday, April 5, 2013
This little light of mine.
My first child, the blonde, turned six last weekend. She, of course, had big plans, and turned six with style - got her ears pierced and everything (sob). Fancy shopping, fancy dinner, and even skipped a birthday cake so she could order fancy dessert at the restaurant. She's a fancy girl, what can I say. The blonde is our walking experiment. As the first child, all disciplinary action, privileges, and milestones are tried out on her before we run them on the other girls. She's how we discovered that if you want a baby to sleep in it's bed, you cannot let her sleep only on your lap for the first six months of her life. She's how we learned that it's ok to throw away a onesie. Not all poop explosions are worth cleaning up after (in a public restroom). She's how we learned potty training is not a race, and not all kids work for stickers. She's how we learned that if you spell the same secret word in front of your kids all the time, they'll figure it out and ask to go to the P-A-R-K. She's how we learned that children cannot always be reasoned with. Sometimes they just need a little hug and some candy to forget the trouble they've gotten into. She's how we learned that the dark is scary, and everyone needs a night light. She's how we learned that they grow too fast. We spent so much of her little time counting down to milestones, and wondering how she'd change, that suddenly, she has, more than we had thought. She is teaching us that she won't be a kid for long, and now is the time to let her just be one. Let her like princesses for as long as she wants to. Let her snuggle whenever there's a lap available. Let her brush her own teeth, but still zip up her jacket for her. Let her be silly, but be serious when she wants to be. Let her imagine she is any wonderful thing she dreams up, and let her continue to teach you how to be a good parent. Mistakes will be made, but fortunately, all I see in her are things we did right - she is loving and kind, she is honest, she is compassionate - she is a gem, and she shines not because of us, but because God has made her a wonderful child.